How Chemistry Works in Women & What Are the Chemistry Triggers

What Is Chemistry?

If you browse through the profiles of women on online dating sites, you will see a tasteless element in their self-introduction: a desire to feel 'chemistry' with a man.

Chemistry with a guy happens when a woman perceives that she and the guy are 'naturally compatible' because her emotional and bodily sparks fly when she meets or is colse to that guy. It is not the corollary of a woman meeting a man and mental to herself "Let's see, he is 6 feet tall, has a good job making 37% more than the median earnings level, is the correct age for child rearing. I think that we have a natural chemistry. For a woman, chemistry is whether abruptly apparent, or it isn't and it is not connected to logic.

Unfortunately, most guys hear the word 'chemistry' and they think it somehow equates to "The guy must be good-looking so the girl think he's sexy and since I'm not the most handsome guy, women won't feel it with me." Most guys just don't understand that they can make women feel attraction to them no matter their looks, age, income, height, or anything else.

Here are some of my observations about "chemistry" relating to women:

"Chemistry" means a lot to women, but not for men. This should not be confused with love. This state of "chemistry with a guy" happens when 2 people 1st meet each other. It can last for months and tends to wear off with time and familiarity.

Chemistry is triggered in women under the following situations:

(a) when a guy behaves in a "naughty" way
(b) when he is perceived to be unpredictable
(c) just when a woman feels she understands him, then he switches back to his unusual self, confuses her, thus giving the guy some air of "mysterious"

When a woman is in a state of "intense chemistry" with a guy, he will all the time be in her mind. "Brief separation" from her can raise this intensity as she 'hungers' to have more time with him. Under the corollary of intense chemistry (where 'longing' is the driving factor) women tends to rationalize the inevitable bad behavior of the guy. He is lazy and without a stable job and keeps asking for money from her. She views him as being down on his luck and needs to be helped. When the chemistry is gone, she "wakes up" and questions her first judgment. You will hear her saying, "I just don't know what I saw in him."

Chemistry does not occur simply or just happens by chance. This is a corollary of frequent institution when interacting with women. This is not rocket science or some hard-to-understand theory.

Do you think "chemistry with women" can occur to you?

Yes, You Can!